There are a lot of themes in this movie about family identity. Miguel is faced with the dilemma that his gift in life is antithetical to his family due to past family trauma. How children and generations can heal family trauma through patience and forgiveness and understanding. Miguel is a very relatable character to today’s teens.
Miguel: Sometimes, I think I’m cursed because of something that happened before I was even born.
Miguel: I think we are the only family in Mexico who hates music. And my family is fine with that. But me… I am not like the rest of my family. I know I am not supposed to love music, but it’s not my fault… it’s his, Ernesto de la Cruz: the greatest musician of all time.
Abuelita: Being part of this family means being here for this family. I don’t want to see you end up like—
Miguel: Mama Coco’s papa?
Abuelita: Never mention that man! He’s better off forgotten. I’m hard on you because I care, Miguel.
Miguel: But what if I am no good at making shoes?Papa: Ah, Miguel. You have your family here to guide you. You are a Rivera and a Rivera is…?Miguel: A shoemaker through and through.Papa: That’s my boy!
Miguel: You’re all really out there.
Tia Victoria: You thought we weren’t?
Miguel: Well, I don’t know. I thought it might have been one of those made up things adults tell children. Like vitamins.
Tia Victoria: Miguel, vitamins are a real thing.
Miguel: Well, now I’m thinking maybe they could be.
Clerk: The way to undo a family curse is to get your family’s blessing.
Miguel: That’s it?
Clerk: Get your family’s blessing and everything should go back to normal. But you’ve gotta do it by sunrise.
Miguel: What happens at sunrise?
Mama Imelda: Two seconds and you already break your promise!
Miguel: This isn’t fair! It’s my life! You already had yours.
Mama Imelda: Don’t make this hard. You go home my way or no way.
Miguel: You really hate music that much?!
Mama Imelda: I will not let you go down the same path he did.
Hector: Why the heck would you want to be a musician?
Miguel: My great great grandpa was a musician.
Hector: Who spent his whole life performing like a monkey for complete strangers, egh. No thank you.
Hector: He’s been forgotten. When there is no one left in the living world who remembers you, you disappear from this world. We call it the final death.
Miguel: Where did he go.Hector: No one knows.
Miguel: But I’ve met him. I could remember him when I go back.
Hector: No. It does not work like that.
Hector: You always this nervous before a performance?
Miguel: I don’t know. I’ve never performed before.
Hector: What?! You said you were a musician!
Miguel: I am. I mean, I will be, once I win.
Hector: That’s your plan?! No, no, no. You have to win, Miguel. Your life literally depends on you winning. You’ve never done this before?! I’ll go up.
Miguel: No. I need to do this.Hector: Why?
Miguel: If I can’t go out there and play one song, how can I call myself a musician?
Hector: What does that matter?
Miguel: Cause I don’t want to just get De La Cruz’s blessing, I need to prove that I am worthy of it.
Mama Imelda: This non-sense ends now, Miguel! I am giving you my blessing and you are going home.
Miguel: I don’t want your blessing!
Mama Imelda: Miguel! Stop! Come back! I am trying to save your life!
Miguel: You are ruining my life!Mama Imelda: What?!
Miguel: Music is the only thing that makes me happy. And you want to take that away. You’ll never understand.
Mama Imelda: [Starts singing}Miguel: I thought you hated music.
Mama Imelda: Oh. I loved it. I remember that feeling, when my husband would play and I would sing and nothing else mattered. But when we had Coco, there was suddenly something in my life that mattered more than music. I wanted to put down roots. He wanted to play for the world. We each made a sacrifice to get what we wanted. Now you must make a choice.
Miguel: But I don’t want to pick sides. Why can’t you be on my side? That’s what family is supposed to do. Support you. But you never will.
Miguel: But I’m your family.
De La Cruz: And Hector was my best friend. Success doesn’t come for free, Miguel. You have to be willing to do whatever it takes to ‘seize your moment.’ I know you understand.